Monday, 8 December 2025
8TH DECEMBER 2025
Monday, 1 December 2025
GOODBYE MUM!
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| Mum and me |
Hello all,
It is with a very heavy heart that I make the following announcement.
On Tuesday, 25th
November, our family said goodbye to our mother, Soultana Papadopoulos, aged ninety-five. In recent
years she had been living in an aged care facility, where dementia slowly took
more and more from her — her memory, her hearing, her eyesight, and eventually
much of the joy she once found in life. She had reached a point where she no
longer wished to continue, and we, her family, hoped only for her passing to be
peaceful. In that sense, her death was timely and gentle, something she was
ready for.
And yet, the sense
of loss is immense. Even knowing it was her time does not soften the ache of
her absence. Grief arrives in waves I cannot predict, and there are moments
when I am simply inconsolable. I write these words to honour her life, to
honour the complexity of loving and losing, and to find my way through the
quiet emptiness she leaves behind.
I can understand
why some people might be skeptical when a daughter speaks glowingly of her
mother. But as the eldest, I was the one who received most of the phone calls
over the past week from her contemporaries, friends, and relatives — from
Greece, where she was born and lived until she was thirty-four, and from those
who knew her here in Australia. Every single person, without exception, spoke
of the same qualities. They remembered her loving nature, her generosity, the
broadness of her smile, and the unmistakable warmth of her heart. They told
stories of her kindness, her humour, and the fun she brought into their lives.
Mum had many talents — she was a gifted dressmaker, an enthusiastic knitter, a wonderful cook, and a devoted gardener. Her garden never followed a theme or a carefully planned style; she simply planted anything she could fit into the soil. The result was a glorious profusion of colour and vibrancy, a joyful chaos that reflected her own spirited nature. Try as we might, we could never convince her to use less water, so in the end we installed a large rainwater tank just to keep her from doing the wrong thing. Her garden became the showpiece of the street, a living testament to her energy, her persistence, and her love of beauty in all its forms. Mum had a natural flair for putting flowers together that looked beautiful and there was always a vase with brightly coloured flowers on the kitchen table.
She lived in a cul-de-sac in Northcote where all her neighbours loved her. And why wouldn't they? She shared her baking with them, always had treats for the children and she grew enough vegetables to share with all of them.
Mum lived with us, after a serious stroke, for nearly ten years and, during that time she saw, literally, hundreds of ikebana arrangements in the house. But she never commented on any of them, which I found surprising. However, she absolutely loved the miniature arrangements. So, today, I made one in her honour.
With all the grief
and the busyness of organising the funeral, and with calls and messages coming
from well-meaning friends and relatives, I found that spending an hour, quietly
working on the miniature arrangements was quite calming. So I made a second one—just for myself.
Bye for now,
Emily
Monday, 24 November 2025
Hello all,
Over the years I have received a number of requests or suggestions to write a book. I didn't give this much consideration because I don't think any publisher would consider an Ikebana book by a relative unknown, financially viable.
However, my most recent such request from a lovely lady in South Australia included a suggestion of a series of instructional videos, to which people could log in and watch. This is doable. I would like to ask for your feedback on the idea and an indication of whether you would be interested in watching such videos. Of course, there would be a fee but I haven't figured out what that would be or how it would be implemented.
Before I put in all the work required, I would like to have some idea of the number of people that might be interested. Please be assured that I am not asking for a commitment, merely a show of interest. Feel free to email me on emilykara@optusnet.com.au with any questions, suggestions and, hopefully, a show of interest.
OK. So back to ikebana. In my previous Wednesday class I had set a double theme for the advanced students - 'Shape of the Container' and 'Colour of the Container'.
Mine is the example at the top of this post. The colour of the metal container is slightly changed with the reflection of the surface but it blends with the smoke bush (cotinus Grace). The colours of the Louisiana Iris and the variegated cordyline also tone in with the brown colour of the smoke bush. The shape of the smoke bush flower repeats the shape of the vase.
Nicole used a deep purple coloured, glass vase for her arrangement, below. She used dried weeping willow sprayed white to complement the curve of her vase and vibrant pink crucifix orchids to tone in with the colour of the vase.
Jenny used silver birch branches inside and outside of her vase, which has a pattern of thin branches at the front. Her white roses reflected the colour of her vase.
Monday, 17 November 2025
SOGETSU EXHIBITION
Hello all,
It's been quite a busy couple of weeks, ikebana wise but I'm not complaining. There's nothing I enjoy more than creating ikebana.
As I had mentioned in my previous post, the Victorian Sogetsu group had its annual exhibition at the Abbotsford Convent last weekend. The arrangement, above, was my exhibit. I secured two wooden hoops in a heavy, ceramic container with a split down the middle. The branch is a dogwood, 'Cornus Norman Haddon'. It is just beginning to flower, so the flowers are still small but quite charming the way they sit up above the branch. Another charming feature of this plant is that the flowers start off creamy in colour but become pink as they age, so that at any time, there can be both pink and cream coloured flowers.
Below is Vicky's very simple but striking exhibit. She used the soft, central piece from an agave plant and some papyrus in a ceramic container.
Cymbie's arrangement, below, began with the making of the container. She Used a stripey bamboo cane and, with a weaving method, attached dietes leaves hanging down. The yellow heliconia was the focal point.
Below is my arrangement on the theme. I used stems of Siberian dogwood, Cornus Siberica alba', which I trimmed back leaving five 'V' shaped stems. I attached another stem on the top of each 'V' creating triangles. To those triangles I pasted pieces of the washi paper from the back, so that the stem framed the triangle at the front. I then placed the structure, in a forward slant, into a container with two openings. The Siberian iris completed the arrangement.
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| Side view showing the forward slant |
The previous Tuesday was the scheduled Ikebana International workshop, for which I was the presenter. (I told you it's been a busy couple of weeks!) The theme for the workshop was 'Geometry in Ikebana'. This theme had been selected by Lucy. I was supposed to present another workshop in October and Lucy in November. But, due to surgical procedures for both of us, we swapped.
We use geometry in ikebana all the time by making shapes in lessons such as 'Repeating similar Shapes and Forms' or 'Paying attention to the Shape of the Container' but we don't call it geometry as such.
I had set up one arrangement before the meeting and demonstrated another three. Below is the first of these. It comprised of two fish bowls representing the geometric shape of a globe and two large gymea leaves, in and out of the container creating triangles. The brightly coloured, red hippeastrum flowers were donated by my sister-in-law, Betty.
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| Photo by Lei Wang |
The lacquered red container in the next arrangement was a gift from my sister, Lucy. She brought it back from Vietnam. It has an asymmetrical, geometric shape on its own. Then, I cut two monstera deliciosa leaves into triangles and placed them in the container using a kenzan. I added red, Altissimo roses and white alstroemeria flowers to be seen through the 'window' of the leaves.
I leave you with a wall arrangement I made just for me, using smoke bush - cotinus Grace, and strelitzias reginae.
Bye for now,
Emily
Tuesday, 11 November 2025
SUPPLEMENTARY POST
Hello all,
I'm writing this post because I forgot to inform you, in my last post, of our upcoming, annual, Sogetsu exhibition. The details are as follows:
Venue: The Linen Room, Abbotsford Convent
Address: St Heliers St, Abbotsford
Dates: Saturday 15th November, 10am to 5pm
Sunday 16th November, 9.00am to 5pm
I hope to see you there.
Bye for now,
Emily
Monday, 10 November 2025
MASTERCLASS #36
Hello all,
For our recent Masterclass I provided all of us with the same branch material from a dying, photinia tree. As a tree, this is one of my least favourite. However, as a dead tree, with the leaves gone and covered with lichen, it has a very interesting form. This particular tree, which was in our neighbour's garden, was dying and, at a recent stormy episode, it fell onto the fence. Initially, I saw it as a problem but after closer inspection I noticed the potential for ikebana.
So, on a very wet, Saturday morning I got thoroughly drenched cutting branches for all of us. As well as a branch, I provided each student with two other materials. All different.
In my arrangement, above, I used the photinia branch, Siberian iris and hellebore leaves in a tall, glass vase. The colour of the iris is somewhat diminished in the photo. In reality it is a vibrant, Cadbury purple.
The most challenging part of using the branches was securing them to the container. We used a number of different mechanics to achieve that.
Below is Cymbie's arrangement. She worked very hard to achieve the seemingly simple arrangement in a container, which has a very small opening.
And, before I sign off, I'll share with you a bit of fun I had with my Siberian iris. And yes, I did manipulate them. After all, what's life without a bit of whimsy!
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Bye for now,
Emily
Monday, 3 November 2025
3RD NOVEMBER, 2025





















































